NO matter how you try family issues ...

No matter how you try family issues rise up when you are sick and your family is healthy.You can get edge, feel left out because you can't do all the things that they can do, you slow them down when you are with them. You get crabby at them and they certainly have reason to get crabby with you.

You sometimes feel abandoned, alone, like an invalid (in valid), awful thoughts.

Your kids are upset because you are not well and it changes your plans, vacations. They can get angry even if they understand.

Your husband is tired of doing everything.

Friends and relatives wonder why they havn't heard from you for so long.

This is not for the weak of heart.